Unconscious choices… – Part 4

Unconscious choices… – Part 4

There’s another side to this coin…

“I don’t know if I can trust again. I’ll believe it when I see it…” 🔍

Everyone is familiar with a situation like this—

from their own life, from someone they know, or at the very least from a movie.

Also known as:

“Actions speak louder than words.”

Here’s the core of the problem when it comes to resolving conflicts and repairing relationships.

After you’ve said what needed to be said, it’s time for action.

After the promises comes the work. 💪

Time for actions to underscore the words.

And yet there is still suspicion. 🤨

“We judge other people by their actions, but ourselves by our intentions.”

Is that strange?

That we feel this way, especially when we’ve seen evidence to the contrary time and time again?

Maybe this is just the latest promise of change…

Hold on, did you catch that? 👀

A few words that we should pause and reflect on—words that can speed up this whole process tremendously?

“… seen something time and again that proved the opposite…”

There it is again:

The difference between 👉 fact and perception. 👈

One person sees it that way, while the other has no idea they’ve done anything wrong.

This is the other side of the coin.

Unconscious choices also mean:

🔸 Unconsciously giving off a different impression than you intended

🔹 Unconsciously causing consequences with your choices

🔸 Unconsciously not choosing other possible outcomes

Is it possible to cover all the bases?

To consider and include everything?

No.

But at the very least, make sure to involve the people who are affected in the decision.

Nothing shouts “I don’t care about you” 📣 more than making a decision about someone without their input.